The Art of Neighboring

Take just a few minutes to think about those who live nearest to you.  What are their names, jobs, hobbies, and political and religious views?  If you are unable to answer all of those questions, you are not alone.  A majorty of Americans cannot answer those questions about their neighbors.

The Art of NeighboringWe have lived in the Lowry neighborhood for just a little over one year and we are working hard to engage those around us at a deeper level.  The genesis for came from The Art of Neighboring by Pathak and Runyon.  We have been putting into practice many of the principles of this book.  We host a monthly party, with the intent of getting to know our neighbors.  We also actively engage in caring for our neighbors by getting to know more than just their names. We celebrate with them, pray for them and walk with them through difficult times.  We now, more than ever before, view those who live near us as our mission field.  As we plant our church, we are focusing on creating a culture of loving our neighbors.

Who is it, who lives within proximity to you, that you need to know more deeply?  How can you build a relationship that opens the door for conversations, not just about likes, but deep rooted heart issues (loves and hurts)?


Sweet Spot

You know those times that you do something hard and it feels natural and comfortable?  Last tuesday night at our Gumbo party felt that way.  Amanda was in her sweet spot using her spiritual gift of hospitality.  The guests felt at home and welcomed at our table.  I was able to bounce from conversation to conversation getting to know each of our guests.  The food was good, the atmosphere was welcoming, and the company was good.

I am not saying that we nailed everything but I do know this is what God has been preparing us for and it is becoming a reality.  There will be hard days, frustrations, and struggles (you know I am too much of a realist to think otherwise).  But we know that God has called us, prepared us, and is now doing a new work through us.  And we are ready to keep aiming for the sweet spot and seeing what God does through us.